I'm finishing up Brenda Ueland's If You Want to Write, which has been one of the kindest, most generous, and encouraging books a writer could read.
I just wanted to post a couple of my favorite quotes:
"For when you come to think of it, the only way to love a person is...by listening to them & seeing & believing in the god, in the poet, in them. For by doing this, you keep the god & the poet alive & make it flourish."
And from the chaper entitled "Why Women who do too much housework should neglect if for their writing" :
"If you are always doing something for others, like a servant or a nurse, & never anything for yourself, you cannot do others any good. You make them physically more comfortable. But you cannot affect them spiritually in any way at all. For to teach, encourage, cheer up, console, amuse, stimulate or advise a husband or children or friends, you have to be something yoursef. And how to be something yourself? Only by working hard & with gumption at something you love & care for & think is important."
"Menial work at the expense of all true, ardent, creative work is a sin agains the Holy Ghost."